Masking
Camouflaging neurodivergent traits and its harms.
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Unmasking and stress as competence: honest signals, real budgets, and taking the mask off slowly
Masking is skilled labor with a budget, and the stress responses that come with the mismatch — the shutdowns, the short fuse, the long crash — are the system doing its job, not malfunctioning. What the research supports about unmasking — gradual, safety-dependent, yours to pace — and the free self-reflection tools this site built around it.
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Different minds in the age of average
AI is a regression-to-the-mean engine: the more it mediates production, the more output converges on the modal. That makes genuine cognitive difference rarer and more visible — and neurodivergent minds are a large reservoir of it. A descriptive look at what that means, without the superpowers trope.
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The double-empathy problem lands in your pull requests
Autistic communication friction isn't a last-mile social-skills gap. Milton's double empathy problem reframes it as bidirectional — both neurotypes fail to read each other — and the fix is protocol design, not coaching the autistic person to mask.
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What "neurodiversity at work" programs get wrong: assimilation sold as inclusion
Corporate neurodiversity programs recruit autistic people for narrow roles, measure success by whether they learn to mask, and call it inclusion. Real inclusion redesigns the workplace around autistic cognition, not the autistic employee around the workplace.
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Autistic burnout and the cost of masking, for knowledge workers (not the HR version)
Autistic burnout is a predictable output of sustained masking under a neurotypical-coded work rhythm, not a personal coping failure — and the standard corporate interventions make it worse. What actually helps, drawn from AASPIRE and the masking-cost literature.